Notice that a person can have different aspects of their identity fall along different places on each dimension. Here's an example of how several people might identify differently on each of the dimensions.
Gender identity: Non-binary
Gender expression: "There was one moment in my life where I didn't own a piece of male clothing, really.""
Sexual Orientation: Gay
Gender identity: Genderfluid
Gender identity: Female
Gender expression: Non-conforming
Although you might be told to not worry about your place in the community, it can be easy to feel pressured to label yourself within the umbrella of identities. In addition, thoughts like “I’m not ______ enough" may keep you from entering LGBTQ spaces.